Birthdays!

Remember when you were a kid and you were so excited to have a birthday party, or a sleep over ? Since my birthday falls around Thanksgiving mine have been tricky with coordinating parties or other things.


The one thing that I don't like about birthdays is sometimes it shows you no one likes you for real. LOL. I mean if you plan a party and people can't come, I take it personally. I know I shouldn't especially since it's the holidays, but for the most part, everyone wants to be liked. Even though I say how much I hate people, there are still some people I want to like me and when they don't, I feel like Jr High again. Not that any of these people are 'mean girls' but I view them as popular in our ring and who doesn't want to be popular, even at this stage in your life? I know some with say it doesn't matter, but on some level, it really does.


This year the blessing of my birthday falls on Black Friday. I hate shopping unless I'm going for a specific thing, and I hate traffic and crowds, so this day will be hell. Just kidding, it's going to be a beautiful, sunny, cool day and I will enjoy it no matter what. I will have breakfast with number #1 beloved then I have dinner with my 2nd beloved and my Mum. What more could a birthday girl ask for? Sure a beach trip would have been nice but I do love the cold, it goes better with my personality.


Wait, maybe that's why people don't like me. Hahahaha. I think I will look at me instead of pointing at others. As the saying goes, you can only control how you handle things, not how others do.


I hope everyone has a very happy thanksgiving and really, don't feel sad for me. I wrote this with some humor, yes I want to be liked but if you don't that's your loss, not mine anymore.


Hugs and kisses kiddies!

Fun Facts About Moi

As I see other countries that view my blogs, I thought perhaps I should do a mini bio on me. Here we go:


I am a blonde haired, green eyed Mum of two beautiful sons. They are 18 and 22 and I worked very hard to conceive them. These were completely wanted hoodlums. I say hoodlums with extreme love.


My father passed away 3 years ago April and I never realized just how much you miss a parent. I don't wish that loss on anyone. I've lost grandparents and those were hard, but your parent is a completely different feeling.


My Dad was 100 % Ukrainian and my Mum is adopted so she always said she was a "Heinz 57 Mutt". My sibling and I are not ugly women so it all worked out . :)


I have worked various jobs from Dance Instructor, Receptionist, Retail Sales, and currently have been doing Auto Underwriting for 20 years.


I am not really super outgoing until I get to know people. I have always had a small "inner circle" but the last few years I made that larger, got burned and I am back to a small group of trusted friends.


I love hard and fierce and if I really care about you, I have a hard time letting that go even if you aren't the nicest to me afterwards. But once I am done, or over you and the situation, there is no coming back. You are basically dead to me. I don't wish you any harm, I just don't want to be around you.


I say I hate people and for the most part this is accurate. I don't understand how people can talk out of both sides of their mouths, say mean or hurtful things just because you don't like someone and I have no patience for bullies at all. If I have something to say about you, I have said it to you first. People are treated equally until you piss me off or F*ck me over. Then refer back to the previous comment and welcome to the Dead Zone.


I say I'm perfect, in jest, because my Mum would always say we were "PIEW" which if your parents didn't like you, you never heard, but means "Perfect In Every Way"...:) I have flaws like everyone, I have insecurities like everyone, well most everyone. I do know some people who have egos larger than the world, and good for them, but I'm not like that.


I enjoy traveling and seeing new cities, people and places. If it has a beach you don't have to ask me twice. I am a beach girl and will have my ashes spread into the ocean when I leave this world.


I love being sarcastic, funny, sardonic, and I think I'm a good person. I don't go out of my way to be a hag, but if you start it, I will finish it.


I have a beloved puppy named Gigi, and she is my heart, my love, my life partner. It's true, it even says it on my Facebook account.


I love all of you who take the time out of your busy lives to read my blogs. That gives me great joy.