As with all of my posts, these are my personal comments, likes, dislikes and pet peeves. You don't have to agree, I allow you to have your own opinion. I'm flexible that way. :)
1. JESUS shoes, OMG, no, nada, never, not even on a dare, EVER wear these out. Save yourself and don't even purchase them. If a female buys them for you she is marking her territory. No woman likes these shoes on men, even his Mum Mary was all "oh sweetie, are you SURE you want to wear those?"
2. Net tank tops. It was funny in the 80's if you were thin and gay, now it's just sad and I don't care if you are the Rock, stay away from netting period.
3. Bike shorts. Unless you are in the Tour De France, no bueno.
4. Toe rings, just don't, please?
5. If you have a furry chest, DO NOT wear a tank top. No one wants to see the beast you contain under your day to day wear.
6. Speedos. My Dad was a huge Speedo wearer, but he could get away with it. Unless you are swimming for your country, keep to the board shorts.
7. Capri pants. Just wear shorts dude. Come on. Don't make people want to throw things at you.
8. Face tattoos. Why hide your beauty with ink. Save it for the arms, legs, chest, back etc.
9. Ratty, torn up, dirty underwear. Your Mum will thank you if you are ever brought into the ER. She won't have to hide her face in shame.
10. Crochet sweater vests. That says it all. If you have to ask, I will have to slap you.
Until we blog again, hug hug kiss kiss. Smooches.
Friday, July 31, 2015
Monday, July 13, 2015
Things I Hate Part Deux
I know I am not alone with some of these, but here we go:
1. Liars, not just really bad ones, but good liars too.
2. People who are cruel to animals. Special hell for those scumbags.
3. People who come to work early and then just stand around and talk for 30 minutes. No one wants to listen to you, sit the F*ck down and shut the hell up!
4. Playa's, or players or whatever else they go by. No one needs them, no one wants them and I don't know why anyone would want to be one.
5. Fake people. You know those friends who are always saying "oh we should get together" and then never want to.
6. People who prey on children and the elderly. No bueno on any level.
7. Backstabbers. These are people/co workers you thought were your friends and turns out they aren't.
8. Disrespectful people. There is nothing worse than going out to eat and one of your people is rude to the wait staff or the hostess etc.
9. People who stare at you for no reason. You know what I'm talking about? You walk into the bathroom and they just burn a hole in your body? Or you're walking into a place and a couple just watches you come up from the parking lot and stares at you and if you're me, you're asking yourself, ummm do I have a boob out or what? (Actually I just chalk that up to these people have never seen a real live Princess so they are in awe when I approach, that's the only reasonable answer I can come up with)
10. People, just all kinds of people. Ugh. But I love my kitties and my puppy and my kids. I would die for all of them.
1. Liars, not just really bad ones, but good liars too.
2. People who are cruel to animals. Special hell for those scumbags.
3. People who come to work early and then just stand around and talk for 30 minutes. No one wants to listen to you, sit the F*ck down and shut the hell up!
4. Playa's, or players or whatever else they go by. No one needs them, no one wants them and I don't know why anyone would want to be one.
5. Fake people. You know those friends who are always saying "oh we should get together" and then never want to.
6. People who prey on children and the elderly. No bueno on any level.
7. Backstabbers. These are people/co workers you thought were your friends and turns out they aren't.
8. Disrespectful people. There is nothing worse than going out to eat and one of your people is rude to the wait staff or the hostess etc.
9. People who stare at you for no reason. You know what I'm talking about? You walk into the bathroom and they just burn a hole in your body? Or you're walking into a place and a couple just watches you come up from the parking lot and stares at you and if you're me, you're asking yourself, ummm do I have a boob out or what? (Actually I just chalk that up to these people have never seen a real live Princess so they are in awe when I approach, that's the only reasonable answer I can come up with)
10. People, just all kinds of people. Ugh. But I love my kitties and my puppy and my kids. I would die for all of them.
Friday, July 10, 2015
I LOVE constant complainers....NOT
Look, we all have things that frustrate us, or annoy us from time to time but when your whole life consists of complaining about this or that? It's time to get a new life....literally. We all have days where we hate our jobs, our girlfriends/boyfriends/spouse etc, but if a friend tells you "Hope you have a great week" or "great day" and you come back with "I worked all week" ok AND? I worked all week too and you don't see me constantly complaining about it. IT'S CALLED LIFE! Deal with it.
I have known people in the past who have been Debby Downers. They don't like their job because they feel like a "trained monkey" ok, you work maybe 4 hours a week, STFU. You get paid stupid money for your job, um, let me be a trained monkey for that price. You travel the world, and have n o t h I n g you have to do during the week, I think you can just be quiet. If you don't want to be the trained monkey anymore, cut your hair, and get a different job. Then let's see how you like working like the rest of us do with a minimum of 40 hours per week.
If you don't like your sales job and have been doing it for 30+ years, do something else. Just because you are good at it doesn't make you a slave to it. If you are not happy, then why continue with it? Money is not everything, I know to some people it is, but finding happiness is a much better way to live and love.
If you aren't happy with your current partner but feel stuck or obligated to stay. No, I don't accept that. I was with my ex for 15 years and had 2 kids, I got out you can too. It wasn't easy but thankfully I had my parents for financial help. I had friends for mental help. You can change your status, your position, your hair, your weight your everything.
YOU are the ONLY one who can change YOUR LIFE. Do you want to be 90 years old and wonder what if? Or do you want to be the person who can say I tried, I did the best I could?
Again, I know we all have our beefs periodically, but these beefs shouldn't be everyday. If they are, there's a problem and I cant fix it for you, only YOU can rectify the situation. Just do it and find your happiness....It's worth it, I promise.
kiss kiss hug hug
I have known people in the past who have been Debby Downers. They don't like their job because they feel like a "trained monkey" ok, you work maybe 4 hours a week, STFU. You get paid stupid money for your job, um, let me be a trained monkey for that price. You travel the world, and have n o t h I n g you have to do during the week, I think you can just be quiet. If you don't want to be the trained monkey anymore, cut your hair, and get a different job. Then let's see how you like working like the rest of us do with a minimum of 40 hours per week.
If you don't like your sales job and have been doing it for 30+ years, do something else. Just because you are good at it doesn't make you a slave to it. If you are not happy, then why continue with it? Money is not everything, I know to some people it is, but finding happiness is a much better way to live and love.
If you aren't happy with your current partner but feel stuck or obligated to stay. No, I don't accept that. I was with my ex for 15 years and had 2 kids, I got out you can too. It wasn't easy but thankfully I had my parents for financial help. I had friends for mental help. You can change your status, your position, your hair, your weight your everything.
YOU are the ONLY one who can change YOUR LIFE. Do you want to be 90 years old and wonder what if? Or do you want to be the person who can say I tried, I did the best I could?
Again, I know we all have our beefs periodically, but these beefs shouldn't be everyday. If they are, there's a problem and I cant fix it for you, only YOU can rectify the situation. Just do it and find your happiness....It's worth it, I promise.
kiss kiss hug hug
Monday, July 6, 2015
Dating...bleck
I had a date last Friday with a guy I have met several times but didn't really talk to until last week. When you meet someone out, and if you're like me, you have had an adult beverage or 2 you are more relaxed and inviting to chat with someone. If a dude comes up and tries to talk with me while I've not been drinking I usually just stare at him until I'm finally bored enough to say "Do I know you?" or in one instance "Why are you here?" Yes I know, it could be construed as rude or impolite but if you invade my personal space and I don't want you there, I can't be held accountable. I'm fairly certain Johnny Cochran has made that argument stick, I know somebody has. :)
Anyhoo, so dude was quite attentive all week with calling and texting etc. Sometimes a little too much sexual innuendo but I would either ignore or call him out on it. Here's a HUGE pet peeve, if I barely know you and have not spent at least a few hours of one on one time, do not ask me if I miss you. My answer is always going to be no. I can't miss someone I A) don't know, or B) have never been around. I mean seriously? If that is written in the Players handbook, don't use it. This is my helpful hint to all of you.
Because both of us were busy with work, my kids/plans already made, we opted for lunch. Love this date. That way if it doesn't go well you can high tail it out of there after the meal. Like STAT. I will admit to being a tad shallow when he showed up I thought "hmmm, he looked better the other night" but you know he could have said the same thing about me. BAHAHAHAH who am I kidding? I always look good, I may be fluffy but at least I'm attractive. Anyway.....he was late, but he did tell me he would be. That didn't bother me.
He shows up and we talk and it's all good. I had to be somewhere in a few hours so we couldn't do a movie or hang out for long, but he wanted to show off his new bathroom and play his drums for me. I'm down, love the drums. I ask him if his drums are in the bedroom, because then I would have to decline, he assures me they are in the basement and I wonder to myself if that is worse. What if he has it padded and no one could hear me screaming for help? I mean you never know what people are REALLY like until you do. I will say this, dude did have manners, always a plus, and he could play some drums. So I have nothing negative to say about that.
He played a few songs, all that I liked so he has good taste in music and no he didn't play any Bon Jovi, but you know, not everyone is perfect. Then he pops in a movie and we watch "My Cousin Vinny" haven't seen that movie in years, but always hilarious. Mid movie he kissed me and it was nice, I mean I wasn't repelled which is always a good sign. I get up to leave after a while, and he walks me out to my car and kissed me again saying something like "talk to you later babe". And guess what? Yeah, never happened. But again, that's ok. Apparently, he wasn't that into to me and that's his right. He may be an idiot, but at least I found out before spending quality time and years. hahahahaha
Hugs hugs kiss kiss my friends, hope everyone is doing well.
Anyhoo, so dude was quite attentive all week with calling and texting etc. Sometimes a little too much sexual innuendo but I would either ignore or call him out on it. Here's a HUGE pet peeve, if I barely know you and have not spent at least a few hours of one on one time, do not ask me if I miss you. My answer is always going to be no. I can't miss someone I A) don't know, or B) have never been around. I mean seriously? If that is written in the Players handbook, don't use it. This is my helpful hint to all of you.
Because both of us were busy with work, my kids/plans already made, we opted for lunch. Love this date. That way if it doesn't go well you can high tail it out of there after the meal. Like STAT. I will admit to being a tad shallow when he showed up I thought "hmmm, he looked better the other night" but you know he could have said the same thing about me. BAHAHAHAH who am I kidding? I always look good, I may be fluffy but at least I'm attractive. Anyway.....he was late, but he did tell me he would be. That didn't bother me.
He shows up and we talk and it's all good. I had to be somewhere in a few hours so we couldn't do a movie or hang out for long, but he wanted to show off his new bathroom and play his drums for me. I'm down, love the drums. I ask him if his drums are in the bedroom, because then I would have to decline, he assures me they are in the basement and I wonder to myself if that is worse. What if he has it padded and no one could hear me screaming for help? I mean you never know what people are REALLY like until you do. I will say this, dude did have manners, always a plus, and he could play some drums. So I have nothing negative to say about that.
He played a few songs, all that I liked so he has good taste in music and no he didn't play any Bon Jovi, but you know, not everyone is perfect. Then he pops in a movie and we watch "My Cousin Vinny" haven't seen that movie in years, but always hilarious. Mid movie he kissed me and it was nice, I mean I wasn't repelled which is always a good sign. I get up to leave after a while, and he walks me out to my car and kissed me again saying something like "talk to you later babe". And guess what? Yeah, never happened. But again, that's ok. Apparently, he wasn't that into to me and that's his right. He may be an idiot, but at least I found out before spending quality time and years. hahahahaha
Hugs hugs kiss kiss my friends, hope everyone is doing well.
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