Look, we all have things that frustrate us, or annoy us from time to time but when your whole life consists of complaining about this or that? It's time to get a new life....literally. We all have days where we hate our jobs, our girlfriends/boyfriends/spouse etc, but if a friend tells you "Hope you have a great week" or "great day" and you come back with "I worked all week" ok AND? I worked all week too and you don't see me constantly complaining about it. IT'S CALLED LIFE! Deal with it.
I have known people in the past who have been Debby Downers. They don't like their job because they feel like a "trained monkey" ok, you work maybe 4 hours a week, STFU. You get paid stupid money for your job, um, let me be a trained monkey for that price. You travel the world, and have n o t h I n g you have to do during the week, I think you can just be quiet. If you don't want to be the trained monkey anymore, cut your hair, and get a different job. Then let's see how you like working like the rest of us do with a minimum of 40 hours per week.
If you don't like your sales job and have been doing it for 30+ years, do something else. Just because you are good at it doesn't make you a slave to it. If you are not happy, then why continue with it? Money is not everything, I know to some people it is, but finding happiness is a much better way to live and love.
If you aren't happy with your current partner but feel stuck or obligated to stay. No, I don't accept that. I was with my ex for 15 years and had 2 kids, I got out you can too. It wasn't easy but thankfully I had my parents for financial help. I had friends for mental help. You can change your status, your position, your hair, your weight your everything.
YOU are the ONLY one who can change YOUR LIFE. Do you want to be 90 years old and wonder what if? Or do you want to be the person who can say I tried, I did the best I could?
Again, I know we all have our beefs periodically, but these beefs shouldn't be everyday. If they are, there's a problem and I cant fix it for you, only YOU can rectify the situation. Just do it and find your happiness....It's worth it, I promise.
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