I had a date last Friday with a guy I have met several times but didn't really talk to until last week. When you meet someone out, and if you're like me, you have had an adult beverage or 2 you are more relaxed and inviting to chat with someone. If a dude comes up and tries to talk with me while I've not been drinking I usually just stare at him until I'm finally bored enough to say "Do I know you?" or in one instance "Why are you here?" Yes I know, it could be construed as rude or impolite but if you invade my personal space and I don't want you there, I can't be held accountable. I'm fairly certain Johnny Cochran has made that argument stick, I know somebody has. :)
Anyhoo, so dude was quite attentive all week with calling and texting etc. Sometimes a little too much sexual innuendo but I would either ignore or call him out on it. Here's a HUGE pet peeve, if I barely know you and have not spent at least a few hours of one on one time, do not ask me if I miss you. My answer is always going to be no. I can't miss someone I A) don't know, or B) have never been around. I mean seriously? If that is written in the Players handbook, don't use it. This is my helpful hint to all of you.
Because both of us were busy with work, my kids/plans already made, we opted for lunch. Love this date. That way if it doesn't go well you can high tail it out of there after the meal. Like STAT. I will admit to being a tad shallow when he showed up I thought "hmmm, he looked better the other night" but you know he could have said the same thing about me. BAHAHAHAH who am I kidding? I always look good, I may be fluffy but at least I'm attractive. Anyway.....he was late, but he did tell me he would be. That didn't bother me.
He shows up and we talk and it's all good. I had to be somewhere in a few hours so we couldn't do a movie or hang out for long, but he wanted to show off his new bathroom and play his drums for me. I'm down, love the drums. I ask him if his drums are in the bedroom, because then I would have to decline, he assures me they are in the basement and I wonder to myself if that is worse. What if he has it padded and no one could hear me screaming for help? I mean you never know what people are REALLY like until you do. I will say this, dude did have manners, always a plus, and he could play some drums. So I have nothing negative to say about that.
He played a few songs, all that I liked so he has good taste in music and no he didn't play any Bon Jovi, but you know, not everyone is perfect. Then he pops in a movie and we watch "My Cousin Vinny" haven't seen that movie in years, but always hilarious. Mid movie he kissed me and it was nice, I mean I wasn't repelled which is always a good sign. I get up to leave after a while, and he walks me out to my car and kissed me again saying something like "talk to you later babe". And guess what? Yeah, never happened. But again, that's ok. Apparently, he wasn't that into to me and that's his right. He may be an idiot, but at least I found out before spending quality time and years. hahahahaha
Hugs hugs kiss kiss my friends, hope everyone is doing well.
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