Men Intimidated????

Over the years, I've had friends in the dating pool. One of the 'go to' lines I hear them say, when a guy hasn't returned their call, or shown the right amount of interest, has been "he's intimidated by me." Yeah, sorry, NO, this is not the case. If this was true no woman would ever have a date, get married, divorced, or laid. Come on. I don't know who originally came up with this, perhaps Mother Theresa, I mean there was a reason she was a nun, not too cute to look at, but guys are not intimidated by much. And if they were by girls, would we want to date those men anyway? Um, big fat NO. I have dated in recent years, and quite honestly, if you can't take my smart mouth, you are not the guy for me. And my sister and friends would eat you up. And no, I don't miraculously change once we sleep together. Why do people feel the need to change someone they are dating? Excuse me, if you liked my personality before, and I haven't changed it, why are you wanting to change it now? No girl wants the 'whatever you say' guy, if she does she means every once in awhile or when she is trying to get her way. I dated this one boyfriend on and off for about 5 years. The first time we dated, I dated him to get over another guy. My lead male friend said this was the way to get over a love. Anyhoo, Xbf was a 'yes' man the first time. After about two weeks of getting my way, I was done. Look, if I can walk all over you? I'm bored and you are no longer my chew toy. We ladies also don't like the 'my way or the highway' guy either. We like the guy who puts us in our place, but still lets us be who we are. We want the 'give and take' guy. In my case, if I should happen to make a smart ass comment, at your expense, I am inviting you to join my volley. If you let it whiz past you, it will be ok for a few, but then, you've lost my interest and I am looking for the next hunk of love to spar with. I hope you all know that when I say 'spar', 'volley' I am talking conversation wise, I am not into being hit, and I don't know any who are, unless it's for a specific game,  and you all know what I mean. :)